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The Internet a blessing or dangerous Curse
Date:8 Spetember 2011
Press release - Rothko PR

Deputy Minister says sex crimes on increase and parents must take action

Speaking at the launch of a joint initiative between the Film and Publication Board (FPB) and the Department of Home Affairs on 8 September, Deputy Minister of Home Affairs, Fatima Chohan, said “the latest crime statistics show that sexual crimes against children are on an upward trajectory and we need to inform the public of the danger inherent in social media and the wider Internet that is threatening our children”.

Co-hosted by the Businesswomen’s Association, the launch included a panel discussion and pre-screening of the film ‘Trust’, which clearly illustrates the potential dangers of children accessing the internet and interacting with others through social media. “Our message is clear - In terms of the threat to children, cyberspace presents a whole new dimension that has never existed before,” she said.

The joint initiative was created to facilitate discussions between women across the country about the realities and dangers of children using communication platforms like the Internet, and to raise awareness among mothers of the risks associated with this technology.Panel member Marlene Wasserman, aka Dr Eve, revealed some startling statistics: 75 percent of children online are using instant messenger services (IMS), 60 percent admit to giving out personal information on the web, 70 percent report to having seen inappropriate images on the web, and 70 percent of these say they were exposed to these images by age 11.

The largest number of sexual victims are victimised by people their own age. “How do nine or ten year olds get it into their minds to hurt another person? They see these images as examples of behaviour. Parents don’t realise that our children are being parented by everything they view. Even if they are seeing a simple kiss, children don’t know how to contextualise this,” said Dr Eve. She said that a person’s decision-making capacity is only fully developed at the age of 26. Until then they are shaped by the stimuli of their environment, “and now, generally speaking, that environment is largely the Internet”. We need to educate children, to understand their issues, to affirm their belief in themselves, so that they have the confidence, and trust, to approach us when there is the possibility of danger. The internet is a symptom of a problem,” she said.

Chohan said that while government and governing bodies such as the FPB have a role to play in combating the dangers, “government has to partner with society to raise awareness and make people mindful of these dangers. To educate children, we as a society have to educate ourselves, and react accordingly. In modern life, the parent has to be the remote control,” she said.

Chohan believes that as educators, parents need to be obliged to educate their children about sex. “As care givers you need to get on the same level as children, learn to speak the same language. There is a role for you as parents to play. As government we can only do so much, but as parents, as a family, that is where a change can be made. Without your respect and understanding of the children, without your protection, children are powerless.”
She closed the evening by saying that initiatives such as this joint venture were vital in reaching the public to inform them of the dangers and steps that need to be taken.

“I hope that this will be taken further and that everyone will start discussions and dialogue to spread the word. We as parents need to educate ourselves about how these social sites work so that we know when something is amiss. As long as we have parents who care, our society has hope,” she said.

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